As the person I admire, I wrote my mother. My reasoning was that she is able to put up with her kids and I know that it isn't easy to do. If I admire her, the most obvious fact would be that I would probably follow her steps and do what she thinks best because I've been doing that for so many years already. hat if she was in favor of celibacy/abstinence until marriage? I thought it through and decided that it wouldn't really matter. I haven't gotten to the point where it is a big deal of whether or not I've slept with someone. To me, it wouldn't be any big deal because abstinence until marriage was kind of what I was going on anyway. I don't know how things might change but this question isn't so unrealistic and hypothetical because my mom actually is in favor of celibacy. I'd do my best not to disappoint her on that.