Freinds? HEll no. I dont even know youuu!
We all arent alone in this world. We mostly tend to surround ourselves with people who are just like us. Who believe in the same values, or want the same goals. Sometimes personalitties clash, and sometimes they make you stronger and a force to be wreckoned with. However, can you realy tell who are your real friends or not? Or tell what their in it for? Some friends are loyal, but others just really suck.
I have about 100 aquaintences but only like 6 true friends. I can trust them with anything and im sure they can hold me down whenever. Their so close to me that I even call them my family. Each of my friends bring something different to the table. Some are the ones with the good advice, others are the ones constantly seeking advice, then there are the ones whos house you can come over to anytime of the week unannounced.
You know people are your true freidns or "family" when you can go to their house and call their parents mom and dad and not feel a certain way about it. I do that all the time. Most of my close friends family accept me. Infact one of my dear freinds, her family is always inviting me to family functions and would even like me to attend some weddings. It makes me feel good. As for some of my other friends, I actually havnt met their parents, but im sure if I meet them they would like me just the same. Im agood person, well driven and have my own set of rules to follow. Even though I live life to the fullest, I do it in the most legal way possible.
I actually recently dropped one girl that I use to call my sister from actually being my sister. She use to be really loyal, but now that shes getting this big ego its starting to tick me off. Shes starting to do things that a real friend should never do. Shes changed since junior high. Changed for the worst. Ive actually been by her side on many occasions and tried to talk her through her dumb mistakes. Some how it still doesnt get through to her, because to this day she is still doing the BS that she has been doing. I havent told her i dropped her yet because im trying to see if maybe shel come around. However, it looks like she wont be changing any time soon. Kinda sad.
When I go to college I want to see how loyal people realy are, because those are the people who will make or break you. Im ready for the experience. I want to see how loyal people will really be. Like my dorm mates even. I dont want any of them stealing anything from me. I want to be able to make a connection with them and a bond that will enable us to trust each other. I am going to go there with an open mind and positivity, however, if a person shows one sign of misloyalty thats it. Im never trusting them again.
You can give a "friend" second chances after second chances, in the end, if they dont change its about damn time you dropped them. You shouldnt surround your self with people who will bring you down or even stop your goals from coming true. They should be on your level of dreams. They should want as much success as you and as much positivity as you. If not, your only setting yourself up to go backwards. BAckwards enough to actually stop what your doing to baby sit them in their lives decisions. Im not saying you cant help them, however, im saying dont let them run your life.