Is marriage for everyone?
Something that I have been interested in learning more about has been is marriage for everyone. I remember my sister talking about it recently, but we was just watching a reality t.v show called Basketball Wives. Lately, the issue has caught my eye again. I know that many people feel that marriage can be for everyone. But I disagree with that if marriage was for everyone then why do couples file for divorce.
One thing that I know for sure about “Is marriage for everyone?” is that marriage is not for everyone. Many people get married because you're simply in love with your partner, your parents or family members continuously ask you when you’ll get married, and or your past 30 or 40 and you feel its time to settle down and get married. I’ve been reading this article about marriage and it read other reasons why people get married: “Some marry for love, some marry for money and then there are some who marry purely for the companionship.”
But there are people out there in the world and being married just don’t fit their character. Everyone has a different character, and being married just doesn’t work for everyone. Like for someone who usually don’t have many responsibilities now settling down and having a lot of responsibilities is a drastic change and may not work out when in a marriage. Another reason can be some people having doubts during a marriage believing that they can’t spend the rest of their lives with the same person. Which is a reason why marriage doesn’t work for everyone.
All of this just make me think that marriage isn’t for everyone, but you can still be happy without being married.