Teen abusive relationships
The Chris brown and Rhianna issue open discussion about teen abuse or domestic abuse. A lot of people are talking about this issue now more. I a lot of people that didn't know about teen abuse before now might have an idea about this issue. Teen girls are getting abused in relationships and some girls don't even care. It seems really crazy to me and most of the time their reason to stay in an abusive relationship is that they love the person. I get that they love their partner but does their partner love them too. If they love them why are they abusing them in any way? I mean if they love them then they should not hurt them in any way they should protect them from getting hurt. So their love is one sided? Then they should break from the relation or try help their partner. Many boyfriends are kind of obsessive about their girlfriend and many girls are obsessive about their boyfriend they text each other constantly and if their girlfriend or boyfriend doesn't reply they get really angry. A lot think their content talking shows how much they care about each other, but its really not that cute. Too much obsessiveness can make their partner want to break away from their relationship. There is also jealousy which is horrible because as soon as their partner is laughing with some other guy/girl they are into him/her and few days later they start thinking that they are cheating on them. Not only talking to other people sometimes if their partner is with their friends that leads to jealousy too.
Something that is exteamly saddning is when people die because of a abusive relation. In an article called Teens Often Struggle To Separate Love From Abuse in www.npr.org is says "Nearly one in five teenage girls say their boyfriend threatened violence or self-harm when presented with a break-up, according to a 2008 study on domestic violence among youth. Three individuals, including a father who lost his teenage daughter to an abusive boyfriend, share stories of survival and loss." I think this is just crazy. The boyfriends are obsessive lovers and they need to be treated as soon as possible. But girls died for abuse in relationships. I heard people saying that love should be set free not forced in. I think that if one tries that their true love will come back and if they force their partner to stay with them their partner would want to break away from the relationship. These abuser should be in rehab or something and the girls that are bring abused should have broke away from their relationship. Also its parents respossibily to see who their children is dating.
Teen abusive in a scary issue. In an article Love Doesn't Hurt Oprah said that "The question on everyone's mind is: Can Brown overcome his anger problem? Well, according to Oprah, "If a man hits you once, he will hit you again...Love doesn't hurt." I agree with Oprah.If he did it once he can definitely do the same thing again. Also there was an article out that he tried sleeping with other girls. Rihanna is giving an excuse to many teens to stay in an abusive relationship. Although we don't know what really happened between them its still shocking that she would go back out with him. Also its not only Chris Brown it can be anyone. If they hit their partner once then they hitting them again would not me very hard thing to do.
I guess this is the perfect love picture. And when we see a couple all we see is that they are in love. But some of these couples are in an abusive which we don't see. Teen love is complicated. Everyone has their own way of expressing their feelings for someone. And everyone has a different way of reacting to anger or jealousy in an relationship but beating a person to death is wrong.