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Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend? =D

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Dec 14, 2011
by: brittneya

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Arguing with my boyfriend is my absolute favorite hobby. It's so hilarious and entertaining. The crazy thing is, he loves to argue with me just as much as I love to argue with him. If we go a full day with out an argument we know something is wrong and immediately pick something to argue about. Either I will pick at something small or he will pick at something small, and BOOM: an argument. Our arguments generally last anywhere from 6 to 43 minutes and we end it with a soft gentle kiss.

Arguing in person is the best, but when it comes to us, THERE'S NO LIMIT! We can argue via text messages or if he really wants to get me heated, he will post something stupid on Facebook. That's something I'm making him work on because I do not like people knowing my business at all. Back in the days we used to argue on AIM and Twitter and Gmail / Tmail .

Sometimes I wonder why arguing with each other is fun. Then I wonder if we have mental problems LOL, but for the most part I think we just like it. A LOT of people swear we should have our own TV show or radio talk show. We bring a lot of laughter to the lives of many. Our friends have it the worst. They are always there for every argument. It's hilarious.

I Goggled "why do I like to argue with my boyfriend," and the first thing I saw was, "Why won't my boyfriend argue with me?" And that's just sad. Poor girl wants her man to argue with her, and he won't even give her the time of day! But on a serious note, if you're in a relationship and things are wrong, you should take the time out to discuss it and if it comes out to be an argument, OH WELL! At least you've said what you had to say.

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LMAOO this post is very

Submitted by krystalm on Wed, 2011-12-14 14:47.

LMAOO this post is very realistic, and truthful about how your relationship works out in particular. You was very out spoken about arguments within your relationship , and gave a little advice as to what should be done when argument's are at hand. But i enjoyed reading this i can relate :) .

YAAAAY! im glad you could

Submitted by brittneya on Thu, 2011-12-15 11:02.

YAAAAY! im glad you could relate. i dont feel as retarted as i did before i posted this LOL

I'm The Same Way

Submitted by christopherc on Wed, 2011-12-14 23:08.

Dear Brittney:

This post is really funny, and the funniest part is how I relate to it so much. My girlfriend and I argue all the time just to make up in the end. I feel like me and her love arguing with each other. We never could go a day without arguing, that's like mission impossible.

The comment I agree with you most on is when you stated "Arguing in person is the best". When I argue with my girlfriend in person is the best, we go crazy and start yelling at each other. But I love the end the most because that's when we have make-up sex. I lover her so much though.

I really enjoyed this post, I related to it so much. Can't wait to read your next one. Hope you and your boyfriend stop arguing. Good luck and good job.

LMAOOOOOOOOOO ! Im happy you

Submitted by brittneya on Thu, 2011-12-15 11:01.

LMAOOOOOOOOOO ! Im happy you feel safe telling me your sex life with your girlfriend . i am glad to see somebody else is interested in arguing with their significant other just like me. Its so fun . Does your girlfriend enjoy arguing just as you do ?

Dear Brittney, I enjoyed

Submitted by michaelg on Thu, 2011-12-15 11:10.

Dear Brittney,

I enjoyed reading your post, "Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend? =D" because it made me think of one of my ex's that LOVE to argue she used to tell me she loved the way i looked mad, but all in all we still good friends and arguments are fun SOMETIMES*

One sentence that stands out for me is "if we go a full day with out an argument we know something is wrong and immediately pick something to argue about." that's some crazy shit to realize somethings wrong, makes me wanna be there when ya argue, might make my day laughing Lol

Your post reminds me of something that happened to me. One time my ex tried arguing in Macy's and i didn't wanna hear it so i ignored her throughout the store and security came up to me like "is this female bothering you?" i said nah we good its just she's in love and everyone laughed but yea arguments sometimes makes people stronger.

Thanks for your writing. I look forward to seeing what you write next, things like this makes people realize they are not the only ones that argue every day and probably keep a relationship strong..maybe lol

LMAOOOOOOOOO ! THAT WAS TOOOO

Submitted by brittneya on Thu, 2011-12-15 11:31.

LMAOOOOOOOOO ! THAT WAS TOOOO FUNNNYYYYYY WHAT HAPPEND TO YOU IN MACYS! thats something i wish i was there for. that would have made my week.

But back to what you said about wanting to be there when we argue . . . TRUST ME YOU DO WANT TO BE THERE! i have to admit we are too halarioussss!

Dear Brittney, I enjoyed

Submitted by michaelg on Thu, 2011-12-15 11:11.

Dear Brittney,

I enjoyed reading your post, "Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend? =D" because it made me think of one of my ex's that LOVE to argue she used to tell me she loved the way i looked mad, but all in all we still good friends and arguments are fun SOMETIMES*

One sentence that stands out for me is "if we go a full day with out an argument we know something is wrong and immediately pick something to argue about." that's some crazy sh*t to realize somethings wrong, makes me wanna be there when ya argue, might make my day laughing LOL

Your post reminds me of something that happened to me. One time my ex tried arguing in Macy's and i didn't wanna hear it so i ignored her throughout the store and security came up to me like "is this female bothering you?" i said nah we good its just she's in love and everyone laughed but yea arguments sometimes makes people stronger.

Thanks for your writing. I look forward to seeing what you write next, things like this makes people realize they are not the only ones that argue every day and probably keep a relationship strong..maybe

I can relate to your post "

Submitted by amaric on Thu, 2011-12-15 15:00.

Dear Brittney

I can relate to your post " Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend ?", odee !! :-D because my boyfriend & I always argue too.

One sentence you wrote that stands out for me is: "Either I will pick at something small or he will pick at something small, and BOOM: an argument.." This stood out for me because i always do the opposite to my boyfriend, ill pick something little to argue with him for instance.. if he says he gonna call me at 9:20 & I get a call at 10:11 he know he gonna hear my mouth -__- .

Another sentence that I agree with was: " But on a serious note, if you're in a relationship and things are wrong, you should take the time out to discuss it and if it comes out to be an argument, OH WELL! At least you've said what you had to say." This stood out for me because its true a least you know he's gonna think long & hard about it if he care's.

Your post really reminds me of my boyfriend & I. One time he tried to argue with me because i made a post on Facebook & some boy commented on it & said for me to inbox him & I didn't write back but my boyfriend wrote underneath it & said: " You better chill with that she not in-boxing nobody " & when I called him he asked me why I didn't write back to the boy & tell him NO, lml .

Thanks for your writing I look forward to seeing what you write next :).

LMAO omg you and your

Submitted by brittneya on Fri, 2011-12-16 10:57.

LMAO omg you and your boyfriend sound just like me and my boyfriend. if a boy tires to talk to me and i dont VIOLATE him he goes off on me ! lmaoooooo i tell him hes a psycho path ! im so happy you and others are relating to this , its great to know im not the only one going through these halarious situations. sometimes its stressful but for the most part its sooooo funny !

Dear Brittney: I love your

Submitted by michellea on Fri, 2011-12-16 14:50.

Dear Brittney:

I love your post "Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend". I liked it because as much as you argue is how much me and my boyfriend argue. But I feel the opposite. I don't like to argue with him.

There are times where we argue over stupidity. But it's because we love each other, LOL. Our arguments last a while. I wish they didn't but they do :/

One sentence that stood out for me was "if we go a full day with out an argument we know something is wrong and immediately pick something to argue about". We argue mostly everyday but it's not because we like it. It's mostly because he said or did something. Or I said or did something. I do like when he's angry because when we make up, it's the best.

Another sentence that stood out for me was "our friends have it the worst. They are always there for every argument". Me and him have the same friends at school. So when we argue our friends are in the middle. It sucks for them because they hate to see us argue.

I know we argue because we love each other. And no matter how much we scream and yell at each other, we still come back. Making up after a big argument is so cute (:

Michelle <3

Well in my case, no one is

Submitted by diamondm on Mon, 2011-12-19 12:42.

Well in my case, no one is perfect in a relationship. My girlfriend and I are very happy with each other but I feel like being too happy is just not normal. I can admit that I love to start little arguements with her but I get mad when she tries to have the last word. NO ONE HAS THE LAST WORD BUT ME! im a capricorn myself so I should know.

Dear Brittney: I like your

Submitted by albeli on Tue, 2012-02-21 16:14.

Dear Brittney:

I like your post "Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend." I liked it because as much as you argue is how much me and my girlfriend argue. I don't like to argue with her but then again I like getting her mad. One sentence that stood out for me was "Sometimes I wonder why arguing with each other is fun."This stood out to me because I always wonder why we argue all the time.

There are times where we argue over really dumb things. But it's because we love each other, I guess. Our arguments do last a while. I wish they didn't but they do.

Your post reminds me of when I bother my twin brother. Seeing him get mad and want to punch me is so hilarious.

Thanks for your writing. I look forward to seeing what you write next, because I think you might have something else I like doing or maybe something that can give me info on my girl.

Dear, Brittney I loved your

Submitted by merliz on Fri, 2012-03-02 19:21.

Dear, Brittney

I loved your post I think is completely normal, good things do come out when couple argue. One sentence that stands out to me"the crazy thing is, he loves to argue with me just as much as I love to argue with him" because must girls boyfriends do not like to argue or talk about things at all. Another sentence that stood out to me "if we go a day without arguing we know immediately that something is wrong" because is a good sign to show that something might be bothering either one of you. Thank you for your writing I look forward to seeing what you write next, because i enjoyed your post. I think it was very interesting I never herd anybody who likes to argue with their boyfriend so much.

Dear Brittney, I enjoyed your

Submitted by heryan on Sun, 2012-03-04 23:12.

Dear Brittney,

I enjoyed your article “Why do I love to argue with my boyfriend” because its really funny . All relationships have arguments but some are really serious. I really don’t like to argue with my boyfriend it make me feel lonely. Arguing make the relationship stronger but sometime it could ruin it.

One sentence from the article that stands the most for me is “Either I will pick at something small or he will pick at something small, and BOOM: an argument.” This sentence sound childish i cant be arguing with my boyfriend for no reason. Every relationship is differently, and they all have a way to make things work. Maybe this is your way, but i really think that this might get out of hands.

Another sentence that stand out for me is “We can argue via text messages or if he really wants to get me heated, he will post something stupid on Facebook.” I think that putting your business on Facebook is bad. Everybody will know how childish you guys are and make fun of you. Also you never know how is seeing everything you and your boyfriend post. I definitely think that you should tried harder not to put everything out there.

Thanks for this article. I really look forward of reading your response to my comment, because I would like to know what you think.

This is so funny

Submitted by riljoy on Mon, 2012-03-05 00:51.

Dear Brittney

I enjoyed your post because I find it to be very amusing . One sentence that stands out to me is “The crazy thing is, he loves to argue with me just as much as I love to argue with him.” I think this is good to find someone that likes doing the same thing as you, especially if its something as simple as arguing.

Another sentence that I found interesting was “Our arguments generally last anywhere from 6 to 43 minutes and we end it with a soft gentle kiss.” I find that to be so cute and romantic. It might come off as weird to other people but to me it probably just the same way I would had handled it.

Your post reminds me of something that happened to me. I remember a time where me and my cousin will called our boyfriends and just started an argument with them. At the end of the argument we will just sit and laugh with them and we would say how fun it was to fight over the phone.

I look forward to seeing what you write next, because I see that I have a lot in common with many of your opinions and thoughts. I hope to read more very soon.