Why Do People Cheat?

i feel wat yuu sayiin . some times people cheat because they can. like they kno they can get away with it .smhh but like it never stays a secret & thts wen they feel regret . but by then its too late

i feel you ..people cant be committed in a replationship because they dont know what they want

People is young to know what they want ;Or people dont know what they want

because of what they have been threw in the past O.o

I dont know but their shouldnt be no exuess of why to cheat .!

i wonder the same things . why do people have to cheat if you feel that way then dont be in a relationship. or if theres problems breakup dont go out cheating. that doesnt solve anything !. but one thing i can say is every situation is different people dont always mean to cheat it just happens. i Have a friend who was going through stuff w. his girl and even though they should just break up he chooses not to deal w. it !. now he likes and talks to another girl and this girl doesnt no to trust him. its always something. i know at end day people are human and we make alot of mistakes !

your statement is beyond real. people cheat because of all different types of reasons some people are insecure and cant be committed to one person because attention is all they want it doesn't matter who or how they get it. others do it because they are selfish and want more then one person to them selves. Some people also do it cause i swear they don't know any better. Plenty of people just like attention and looking cool.i cant lie Ive cheated before but when i was younger i didn't give a shit now if i get my self in a relationship it will only be because that's the only person i want. maybe one day people will learn and just stop doing it. but im sure that wont happen

i feel you on this bestie but at the end of the day its brcause the trust in the relationship just dont be there. im a boy iunderstand its hard but it depends on what kind of relationship is between the two and what kind of relationship and love to fallback on.

sometimes i wonder why people cheat cause karma always comes back

Dear jocelynnem

one thing i like about your post is that you is talking about cheating. and no one really talk about about cheating or even people dont have the gust to talk about  it.

one sentence you wrote that stands out to me is when you said "Some people are just brought up like that. i understand what you is trying to say about this comment. but half  of me disagree with it .i feel that if you was always seeing your mother or father cheating all the sime . doesnt mean they have to . its the point of seeing how people feeling was getting hurt. and you knowing its wrong. i belive that that they use that as a excused

another sentence that stood out to me is when you stated "People shouldn't cheat, its just disrespectful. It hurts, i know when it happens to the person who cheated they going to regret it because karma is a bitch. with this being said i agree with you a hundred percent. i say this because i been through it. i dated someone for two years and that person cheated on me . and it did hurt and it felt like my ex didn't care until when he got cheated on

thanks for your writing . ilook foward to seeing what you write next,because i feel like you is bold to talk about cheating because alot of people dont talk about because they is not trying to get caught

In My Opinion I Hate Cheaters Too. It Makes No Sense To Cheat At All Because Your Not Being Loyal To No One Not Even Yourself. Sometimes People Put All Their Love Into One Person & That Person Turns Around & Stab Them In Their Back , Then That Person Who Gave Their Love Has No More To Give. One Sentence You Wrote That Stands Out For Me Is " They have this picture that once a cheater, always a cheater. I honestly think that people can change." I Think Its True Because I Cheated Once & I Learned My Lesson After That. Karma Is A Bitch... & Getting Cheated On Happens To The Best Of Us "/

i agreeeeee with everything you said in your post! Enough Said!!!!!

Dear joycelynnem

I love your post it was so good it really cought my eye i always wounder why people cheat

i never been the type to cheat on a guy because i always been the type that if i didnt want to be with him i just told them and instead of cheating and hurting him i saved both of us the pain sometimes i hate when guys cheat on females because it makes me feel like they dnt care about us an i also hate when females cheat on guys because it just makes it worse for us they just fuck it up lol

i liked when  you said (karma is a bitch) because it really is a bitch an karma is real and some people think it isnt but it bites you in  the ass later on lol

but again i loved you pst keep it up girl lol =P

Dear Jocelynnem,

people cheat because they want to and the person they with aint meeting their needs.

Dear Jocelynne,

I think i know you LMFAO!, ayo people cheat because their not sure of what they want at a young age, regardless of their age also because now adays people ASSUME they are grown. They want to experience things that they will regret later on with different people and obtain a title by gossipers which will affect them from having a decent relationship later on.

Dear Jocelynne ;

People cheat , they always do . Once in the relationship the guy or the girl will cheat . It just happens .

I disagree with you on your quote " once a cheater , always a cheater " because if you lose someone you love .. you'll learn your lesson . 

If you've cheated once you'd realize not to do it again . It hurts more when the person you love leaves just because you wanted to experiment with another person .

You'd see that infidelity is wrong . But if you cheat , there has to be a reason . Maybe your partner is not the person he/she once was . They might not give you the attention , disrespect you or just not being there for you when you need them . The more they push you away , the more another guy or girl will pull you in . They'll cheer you up and before you know it ... you've cheated . Temptations and curiosity just take over .

And if you cheat , you know it'll always come out . Love don't hide secrets , it'll come out one ay or another .

Michelle <3

Dear Jocelynne,
I am interested by your post “Why do people cheat,” because people do this all the time. It is a habit to stop because people do love the attention they get and because they only think about themselves and don't care about how the other person would feel.

One sentence you wrote that stands out for me is "People shouldn't cheat, its just disrespectful. It hurts," I think this is true because cheating is just a way of saying that you do not care about the relationship you're currently in. Why continue it instead of just ending it by breaking someones hurt. Being truthful is the real method people should follow.

Another sentence that I liked was: "People claim they not happy in their relationship -_- so they look for love and affection elsewhere." This stood out for me because this is somehow not completely true but somehow true because since they feel that they aren't happy they just give up by cheating instead of ending it or talking about it. People need to learn how to be honest to each other.

I do really agree with you that some people can change. One reason I say this is because the only reason someone can change is by how confident and willing they are to change. Another reason I agree is because even know a mistake has been made, you can always change no matter what. All that matters is choice.

Thanks for your writing. I look forward to seeing what you write next, because your topics interest me. Your information i can understand from this topic.

Hello Jocelynn,

I thoroughly enjoyed reading your thought provoking post about cheating. I think you made a bunch of really good points, such as "some girls are just whores" and "karma is a bitch". People need to understand these concepts in order to figure out why people cheat on each other. I personally think a lot of people cheat because there is an adrenaline rush associated with cheating on your spouse, and also one associated with the actual cheating, if you get my drift.

I remember reading "Death of a Salesman", a play by Arthur Miller. It is about the American dream, and in the play, the main character cheats on his wife. Later, he struggles in a relationship with his son (who saw the act of infidelity years ago). It shows us that karma does bit back, but also that it is an essential part of the American dream to cheat on your spouse, and hopefully not get caught.

Happy fishing!

Dear Jocelynne,

I think your post raises a lot of good questions for everyone on why people decide to cheat. I consider myself someone who really is opposed to any type of cheating, whether that be on an assignment, or in a relationship. You brought up a good point by saying "some people cheat because they are not getting the attention they need or want" because I believe that is true, and if people do end up feeling that way, they should find a different way to solve it without cheating. I really enjoy this topic, and I look forward to reading more!
Sincerely,
Olivia Loveland

Dear Jocelyn,
This article was interesting to read. Many people do many stupid things and it makes no sense to us why they do it. A book that makes me think of cheating is the Great Gatsby, quite a lot of infidelity there. But to them this infidelity instead of satisfying their need for attention just drove them deeper into sadness. Thank you for the article.

Stephen

If think that if someone isn't ready to be in a relationship, they should let their significant other know. Some couples are totally chill with multiple relationships going on! #Polygamy. I'm sure if you are just into it for a hookup, you could find someone just for some casual afternoon delight, perhaps a nighttime escapade. Already committed and don't know how to get what you want? There are these awesome things called WORDS and when you use them, you can convey messages that you want to say. Maybe you're not happy in your relationship because he's not kinky enough, maybe she's a bitch, maybe this arranged marriage just wasn't meant to be. Try therapy, try talking, or split. You don't really need to add the flame of cheating to a burning out fire, it just won't work.