Why do we hurt the ones we love the most?
Something that I have been interested in learning more about has been how can someone who loves you so much, hurt you so bad?. I remember my bestfriend talking about it when her boyfriend hurt her, but we didn't speak of it much. Lately, the issue has caught my eye again. I know that may people feel that people can't help but to hurt the ones they . From what I have heard, no matter how hard you try the ones you love can get hurt. For example, I heard that even when you try not to hurt someone, they can still get hurt. Now that's just what I've heard, it may or may not be true.
One thing that I know for sure about hurting the ones you love is that it is not always done purposely. You can either get hurt with a lie or with the truth, but either way you'll get hurt. In my opinion it's not easy to not hurt the ones you love. No one wants to be hurt in life, but It is inevitable that people hurt the ones they love.
Being that I didn't have a lot of background information on hurting the ones you love, I chose to do some research on the topic. As I searched for blogs and news articles on Google, I came across this one website: Thecleanlife.hubpages. This article provided a lot of information and opinions on this topic. A quote that explains a lot is: "It seems really odd that the ones we love get hurt and may suffer with inner pain and then unfortunately some may suffer physical pain." This statement didn't really surprise me all that much because sometimes you never really understand how you can hurt someone with the slightest thing.
In another article I found on yahooanswers.com was this one statement that made me nod my head in agreement with the writer. It was: We hurt the ones we love the most because the ones we love the most hurt us. This is so true because if someone hurts us we would want you hurt them back, so that they may feel what we feel. Also we always take others for granted, and that's why they end up hurt.
All of this makes me think of a song I used to love, The one I gave my heart to, by Aaliyah. A quote from the song is: "How could the one I gave my heart to, break my heart so bad? How could the one who made me happy, make me feel so sad? Wont somebody tell me? So I can understand." This quote tells me, no one really knows the true reason of someone hurting another. There are multiple reasons for why people get hurt, but there isn't a main reason.