I thought Zora Neale Hurston book called "Thier Eyes Were Watching God" was interesting because she expresses in her own way what she thinks the difference is between men and women. Zora Hurston thinks men "Ships at a distance have every man's on board. For some they come in with the tide. For others they sail forever on the horizon, never out of sight, never landing until the Watcher turns his eyes away in resignation, his dreams mocked to death by time. That is the life of men." So basically what Zora means is that men are just living in fantasy land consently.